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Grand Manan adventure

The ferry terminal in Black’s Harbour (on the mainland)
Our ride… The Grand Manan Adventure

I have to give some details before I continue, the weekend of my birthday happened to be when Fiona hit the eastern seaboard. I was in shock to see the ferry round the corner behind us. I wasn’t surprised, but overwhelmingly emotional that I was getting my opportunity to see a part of my home province that I had never seen. I was 12 when I was last on a ferry, in the summer of 1995, that summer changed everything. My 12 year old self needed an escape at 40. I got an experience I’ll never forget and will cherish.

An hour and a half of motion on the ocean
Eeeek, my “it’s time to get off the ferry “look
We ended up on the Island of Grand Manan New Brunswick
The Grand Manan Adventure in dock

This is where the story of adventure begins. I have a cell phone that’s on the wrong side of the carrier gods on this island. So, we needed to find out which cottage we were supposed to be in.

Island time is real, laid back and flows with the tides. So much so, the cottage owner forgot to email us the cottage information. We made our way back down Ingalls Head road to a restaurant, who graciously let us use their phone. We went back that night to thank them and got a pizza from them. This is when I realized I was in a magical place and space.

Seaside Haven cottage 2

That night I experienced the rocky beaches and some great views.

Pointing out cottage (2)
Surrender to the tides, a beach walk
(on arrival day)

The day we arrived was monumental because what we arrived to was pure joy…what we left on the other side of the province was unfolding chaos.

We ended our night in the living room of our cottage and mom opened Facebook to reveal the cresting waves and flooding in Shediac. I couldn’t help but cry because of the wrath of Fiona. With 2 hours to spare my hairdresser and her husband got their boat out of Shediac bay and out of Fiona’s way. Two hours later and things could have been disastrous.

I was safe and enjoying not being home. Conflicted with emotions I went to sleep early on the couch and woke up at 2:30 am. I decided to go outside and look at the stars, shooting stars and enjoy some air. Mom peaked her head out to see me looking up wrapped in my comforter I brought with me from home.

An early morning view from our cottage
The sky’s above me

Got back to sleep and woke up refreshed and raring to explore.

A magical view…Grand Manan sunrise from our cottage

The second day was filled with more expect the unexpected. We started slowly watching the sun come up. I ate a Boston cream donut, before my parents we coherent enough to know. Dad opened the pantry, aka a shopping bag on top of the fridge. That revealed small boxes of cereal and snacks. These mini cereal packs were a blast from my childhood. The cereal your parents didn’t want you eating because of the sugar. I dove in to some Corn Pops and made myself at home. Then we made plans for our adventures. It started with dad walking our beach before the tide came in fully and some research on my part.

We decided to go to a beach near the Swallowtail light. I knew we’d get caught, the tides don’t wait. What I saw was magic.

The ferry leaving Grand Manan (the same ferry I’d be on 24hours later)
The wharf next to ferry terminal
Island art old well coffee shop
Old well breakfast sandwich
Old well Ham sandwich
Old well Thai peanut salad (my choice)

The choices of food are pretty good considering that the island houses about 2000 permanent residents.

Day 2 fuel was very pleasing. Next was another beach near the ferry. This is a beach I’d recommend and many people do enjoy…Stanley beach. The road is across from the hospital and is a popular spot for all the wandering people and beachcombers.

This is where I met up with a lady, that we met on the ferry ride over. She was staying at the Swallow tail cottages. Near the ferry terminal. We walked the beach together for a bit and enjoyed each others company. This is also the place I drowned my canvas shoes, that took over 72 hours to dry.

Drenched canvas shoe next to my barefoot
for reference

We wound down at about 5pm as the island was shutting down for the day. We ate snacks for dinner as we regrouped in the living room.

Off to bed we went. I went to bed at about midnight and this time I slept in my bedroom not on the couch. Before sleep I heard a car at the end of the property (it’s music at first), it was another couple in cottage 5 that must have taken the last ferry ride of the day and ended up being the only other people in the cottages our entire stay.

The last few hours on the island were memorable. Breakfast, got trapped on Grand Manan, captured a Grand Manan nut, found out how Dulse is harvested and drank 4 shots of espresso before leaving on the mid day ferry back to mainland New Brunswick.

Trapped souvenirs
My Grand Manan nut (walnut ornament)
This tiny boat is part of the story around the corner from our cottage
A low tide view of the Dulse net
sitting on bottom, near our cottage
Dulse net floating, while fishermen raked
it into the boat

Dulse is a dried seaweed you can eat, this is nearing high tide when it floats so they can spear it into these tiny boats. The drying process is carefully calculated to the sunny weather. So the dulse dries and doesn’t grow mould. The sun came out later that day as we left for home. This is the day I put the dulse fishing pieces together.

Selfies from Grans Manan
Some Grand Manan beach treasure
and moments

The moody departure was well received considering the sun was with us for almost all 36 hours we were on the island. The moody departure was telling us we could go. By the time we boarded the ferry it went from thunder, lightning and rain to overcast skies. Pretty smooth sailing and more moody weather awaited us until we arrived home to Moncton, with sunny skies and a cheery disposition.

That’s it, a few fun moments captured on Grand Manan. My heart is still yearning for a return, sooner than later!

CharFlew

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Something’s in the works…

I’m creeping closer to a goal I didn’t mean to start, but glad I did.

In December 2020, I realized that my goal of activity was higher than I thought. The excitement of reaching goals that were unintentional was mind boggling.

With 2020 and 2021 being very out of this world, I made an intentional goal that I’d do better for myself. I’ve been working on a long term solution to an ongoing journey. It got me thinking of what I can control and contribute for my personal sanity.

I’m active by nature and have been in life phases where organized sports or events were key to sanity. Now, more than ever my sanity is being saved by an active lifestyle for the long term.

I’ll give you a clue on my upcoming post. A streak of sanity in an unstable world. I’ll keep you hanging!

You’ll share in a significant milestone with my next post.

CharFlew

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Photo dump

It’s been a very long hiatus since my last post…5 months.

Lots has gone on, it’s been a very fun summer that needs a recap. We start with food.

What I ate created some amazing moments into memories

Mushroom taco, truffle fries and fish taco

Tacos were consumed twice this summer. The tacos pictured above are from Euston park, a container beer garden restaurant originating in Moncton, that expanded to the west canteen at Parlee Beach provincial park. These two very yummy tacos were had at the beach. I also consumed a beef taco worth its weight in gold from Euston park in Moncton.

Donut think I’m crazy…
Best neighbours ever!

I’ve eaten Ice cream of various flavours and in various forms.

Donuts and ice cream yum, donuts in ice cream heaven!
Halo donuts Moncton meets lost and found ice cream

I don’t know what I did to deserve a sample, but it was worth all the effort to ask. My wish came true! It’s not the first time I’ve asked. Another great collaboration between neighbours. Halo donuts and Lost and Found ice cream are my neighborhood favourites. I’ve eaten way to many donuts to count since October, 2020. I’ve eaten 11pints, one ice cream taco, 2 small scoops and my sample sized donut ice cream since April 2021.

My ice cream taco dream, turned reality
Beers to satisfy the thirsty

It’s been a foodie summer, filled with new memories and loads of laughter and love.

CharFlew

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Words… (Trigger)

Words can be deeply felt. I was triggered by the word safe. A word that’s used mainly to reassure. In a split second this word threw me for a loop.

It’s with a foggy mind that this situation occurred. I was laying down and almost ready to settle in for the night. Suddenly the word safe came into mind. This is where I got freaked out, a split second later I was crying.

In this moment I had to let it all out. My body and mind were tired. I wasn’t feeling good or safe. I’m doing well and moved through it with grace. It’s extremely hard in this situation to pin point any further reason to the trigger.

Feeling Tired + not feeling well + not feeling safe = potential trigger possibility

In a split second you can be triggered. The hardest thing is to reach out, feel and move through a trigger. Some triggers can’t be dealt with quickly, some you’ll need more time with and some you’ll never quite understand. It’s ok to be anywhere on that continuum.

Know that we all have triggers! We all feel and move through them in our own ways and in our own time.

CharFlew

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Here I am…

Welcome to 2021 after a blog hiatus . I can’t believe what 2020 was. It gave us a unique perspective.

What matters most came into focus, deeply rooted stuff came up and how we deal with it all was highlighted.

I start a new year with a keen focus on my intention…I’ll call it my core desire. September 2020 brought a unique chance for me to gather virtually with 4 amazing and inspiring humans who wanted to focus on their desires. I was part of a first…a virtual Goddess Gatherings.

I was part of Stephanie Johnston’s first in person event in Moncton, back in 2017. The synchronicity continued as I was part of her first virtual gathering. I found the deepest rooted desires came out of my Desire mapping experience.

Desire map by Danielle LaPorte is a method to find your deeply rooted desires and how to integrate them into your life. This is where and when I found my core desire WORTH(Y)! I know it’s technically 2 words, but they’re in the same family.

After the big hit to my being in 2020, I realized many things! The biggest thing was how my worth slipped, how my family focus became sharper and that my creativity didn’t need to take a back seat.

I took a sharp turn. I was reminded of this core desire

We are worth the work we put into ourselves, at the core this is where it starts

CharFlew

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heart chop #charflew23

I’m going to share a bit more about my truth…

❤️ Harper, surprise attack of love ❤️

This was captured when I decided to sit on the kitchen floor at my brothers… my buddy Harper gave me kisses 😘

Having had a rough January mentally, it weighed heavy on me. I’m coming to a better state and February proved to be decent. I had 2 special things to celebrate and a surprise I didn’t see coming until the deed was done.

February is affairs of the heart, with Valentine’s Day right in the middle. On Valentine’s Day I did something liberating… I chopped off my long hair. On my own, no supervision.

Valentine’s chop

The story of my long hair starts March 2013, when I was bullied out of school. I had taken the bold move to get an early childhood education/ education assistant diploma. I was bullied by a then 19 year old and one of my teachers. I decided to start growing my hair and got my last trim in March 2014. Since then it’s been growing out. Until January 2019, I started to trim the ends slowly and did tiny trims until February 2020. That’s when I too longer chunks off. I reached a level of comfort and knew to stop. I don’t recommend chopping your own hair. I just got an urge to refresh and renew my spirit and soul.

Then it was time for Work Of Heart. https://www.workofheart.me

A day filled with community, friends and uplifting spirits. The biggest take away was to celebrate your average. Do what you do naturally and make it extraordinary. Things will happen if you let them flow to you and with you, in the now or present moment.

A post Work Of Heart contentment

Now it’s time to say thank you for what was and start fresh. A new month to do your best, be your best and just be!

CharFlew

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Truth Talk (over me…)

BlogJam was a HUGE success and not only because of what I gave to it volunteering, but the amount of knowledge I took from it.

My posts are always intentionally curated, now more so than ever! I’ll spread some wisdom gained thanks to BlogJam. I’ll start with a Friday evening meet and greet.

A New Brunswick Bloggers meetup pre BlogJam conference, sporting my home apparel comfort.

Ruth Ann is one of my absolute favourite local social media people that I got a chance to get to know more of during the weekend.

One of my favourite areas in Nova Scotia is the south shore and this human is always spreading some south shore love.

My social media heart has grown fonder…this was just the start. I was caught in the act of being social and one with my media. That’s true social media.

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TruthTalk (BlogJam)

I’m sending this out into the world, I’m brave, courageous, a willing partner in Fun and sharing. You’re mind is saying where am I going, what will I read.

This weekend (October 27/28) is about stretching out of my comfort zone a bit. I’m becoming aware of my talents and discovering who I really am. Social media is a huge part of how I communicate and bring people together. For the sake of sounding long winded, I love the connections made because of social media. Moments to memories!

This weekend I’m about to help put Moncton’s best foot forward by volunteering at BlogJam Atlantic. The last 3 years, it’s been in Halifax, Nova Scotia. I’ve seen some of my Nova Scotia friends blossom thanks to this conference.

It’s my turn to jump feet first. Feet first because I’m not one to willingly throw an event myself, but I’m willing to work with others as a team to help an event succeed. I’m proud of Moncton. It’s the least I could do to help Moncton shine in the eyes of the organizing committee, all the speakers, attendees, and my fellow volunteers. We’ve got this, it’s time to get this started #BlogJam2018.

CharFlew

whale tails *birthday 2023*

Very happy Mom, dad and Charlotte

I can’t believe this, until I did it. The surreal and iconic thing to do on the Bay of Fundy is whale watching. I recently went to Campobello Island New Brunswick where I experienced this adventure. A birthday cruise with newly minted East Quoddy tours. A birthday cruise and an unforgettable experience.

Perfect sunny conditions
Seeing is believing… fins popping up
Fins and tails galore
Two breaches, tails included of Chevron and Cork a
breeding pair off Head Harbour Lighthouse

CharFlew

Which one?

Dogs or cats?

The reason behind the title, is I’m a dog person that seems to attract cats. I’m an animal magnet. Since 2005 my brother and fiancé at the time had dogs.

My sister in law always had dogs growing up, she knew what would potentially work. Until my brother met his wife, we had nearly no experience with dogs.

We start with a rescue Labrador named Murphy. Even by lab standards Murphy was a larger than life dog. We actually think he may have had some Great Dane bread into him. Murphy came with good manners, was docile, goofy and loyal to those who really knew that a quiet dog was a good dog.

He’d hide in the corner of the kennel and not bark or freak out when people were coming. This is what attracted my brother and sister-in-law to him. He was just the perfect start to a unique journey of dogs in our lives.

Then we had our first puppy and second dog added in 2013, Tucker is our New Brunswick born and raised Labradoodle.

A girl and her Tucker *10 years old*

Tucker learned from Murphy all the good things. Bring on the first puppy and all the craziness as puppies do. I got overwhelmed, trying to manage the firsts of a new puppy, now you can see Tucker and I love each other.

At the age of 4 Tucker got introduced to Harper.

This is Harper *golden doodle*

Harper was born in Nova Scotia and came into our lives at the end of July 2017. Harper came to be after Murphy had a cancer tumor in between his eye and ear. Either way, we’d not have much time left.

A girl and her Murphy * licking his lips*

This was the last visit with Murphy on June 9, 2017. This was the Friday before the hard task of being put down. He never suffered and got that second chance. From leaping like a deer 3 times into my arms, to licking his chops in the back of the car. I’m forever grateful to be a dog auntie.

We are currently on dog 3 since 2005, that’s one rescue *Murphy* and two raised from puppy doodles *Tucker & Harper*. That’s 18 years of dogs in 2023.

I’m forever grateful for my sister in laws decision to bring dogs into my side of the family. I’ve received benefits beyond comprehension.

Love at little bigger,

CharFlew (Auntie C)

Routines and prepare

Are you seeking security or adventure?

I seek a bit of familiarity (security) in adventure. I always have special routines while adventuring. Sunrise catching to make the most of a day. I have routines while hiking anywhere. I have beach combing stuff with me while adventuring.

I’m always prepared, that’s the security part. Proper clothes, my phone, my tick kit, my bear bells, my pack, food and all the water. This list varies by adventure.

My big take away is be prepared, within reason, for almost anything. It’s better to over prepare than under prepare.

CharFlew

A walk on the salty side, Bridge in rear view

Time…

Describe one simple thing you do that brings joy to your life.

I give myself permission to be alone most of the time. When I crave interacting, I go get it. I’m alone, not lonely.

Sitting with your thoughts is hard in a hectic lifestyle. We are conditioned to be “on” most of the time. Sitting in silence or minimal noise is key to “balancing” yourself and finding what really matters.

Thinking…

CharFlew